It's not what you look at that matters - It's what you see

Hello beautiful ladies!

On a lighter note.....

I was talking to my colleague the other day and it was really amusing to understand how she hates the fact that her man looks at other females while driving with her. She further admits that it gets to her even worse when the other lady is fine looking! I am a woman too and hell yeah I don't want no man of mine studying other females - fact.

However, here's what I've discovered - Is it really what he looks at that we worried about or is it probably what we think he sees in that other person that actually matters? While you still figuring that out (cause you probably don't even know why you keep revving yourself about it) I would like us to get involved in the looking - throw comments like "I think she's pretty" "Look at her behind - cute" "I don't really like the hairstyle though, I think if it was curled it would have been nice"

Let us know after a couple of times you engage him in light conversations about his observations. You will be surprised how much you will pick up to your advantage if you adopt this exercise! Remember, our goal is to arrive in a world of less heartaches & less offending behaviors. Your heart depends on you - you need to do everything in your power to protect it, he ain't going to do that for you!

Don't forget to keep looking at those hot guys too ;-)




Tamara Booi